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Monday, October 20, 2008

CUTTING CORDS (MEN ARE LIKE APPLES)









It
is my belief that MEN are like APPLES on trees. The best ones are @
the top, but the boys don’t want to reach for the good ones because they are
afraid of falling AND getting hurt. Instead,
they get the rotten apples from the ground that aren’t as good. But easy. So
the apples up top think something is wrong with them when in reality they’re
amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who’s
brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree. So many of us has had
our fair share of ROTTEN apples and
for some reason many of us seem to keep them so near AND dear to our hearts
when they need to be processed AND
released. IT IS ALL ABOUT A SENSE OF
CLOSURE & CUTTING EMOTIONAL CORDS…
In our relationships we are
constantly exchanging energy that can become a chord connecting us. This
energetic cord forms just below the breastbone and can remain long after a
relationship has ended. This unbroken cord may leave an open channel between
you and him, through which emotions and energy can continue to flow. Besides
the fact that this can limit the amount of closure you can experience in a
relationship, letting this cord remain intact can leave you with a continued
sense of sadness while creating feelings of lethargy as your own energy is
sapped from you. Cutting the cord can help you separate yourself from old
baggage, unnecessary attachments, and release you from connections that are no
longer serving you. Finding and cutting unwanted cords is a simple, gentle
process that is best done alone and when you are relaxed. It is important that
you are strong in your intention to release the chord between you and someone
else. When you are ready, visualize or sense the chords that are connecting you
to other people. Run your fingers through the cords to separate them until you
find the cord you wish to sever. There is no need to worry, because the chord
you need to sever will feel just right. When you have found it, determine where
the cut should be made and then visualize the cord being cleanly cut.
Afterwards, if you feel that cutting the chord has left spaces in your soul,
then visualize those spaces being filled with a healing sunlight. This process
is GOOD in that it can free you from
a relative OR lover that NO longer serves a meaningful purpose.
Though you are doing this process it is IMPORTANT
to note that you are NOT severing the
relationship, you are severing the chords that are NO longer serving you both. In any case, cutting a relationship
cord should always be viewed as a positive and nurturing act. By cutting the
cords that no longer need to be there, you are setting yourself and others free
from the ties that bind.

5 comments:

  1. Good post..I can so relate to the apples...I've felt that way before..like sometin was wrong wit me...but hey thas a topic for another post lol.

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  2. Man... I never really saw it like that. I've heard of this analogy, but I never really saw it like that. I always thought that it was really something wrong with me... I thought it was something mental (maybe I was crazy or something), but I am very unique, I have a whole lot going for me, and a lot of the people that I met in my life didn't seem to have any ideal long term goals for their lives. But I've never been one to intimate people... at least, I don't mean to.This really really changes the way I see things. Even in doing so, I am still very humble and don't see myself as anyone really physically attractive. I love this post. It has to be my favorite.

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  3. "The best ones are @ the top, but the boys don’t want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling AND getting hurt. Instead, they get the rotten apples from the ground that aren’t as good. But easy."Thats a good point that I can relate to as a heterosexual, I notice that I will choose women that I know are no good, but not necessarily because there easy to get in bed with but easy to walk away from.Good post.

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  4. You're talking about energetic cords and exchanging of energy... I just wonder if you have read this information elsewhere or if like a prophet, you feel or sense these things? I just wonder.

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  5. TO SHALLOTTE: I feel these things, I don't think that I am a prophet...Also I read to confirm my feelings and I talked about this with a friend of mine that is VERY much into type of stuff. So with all of this combined I wrote this based on a conversation I had with another friend of mine who is having trouble letting go of his past...

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