We have all had the experience of realizing that something in our lives is not
working. This knowledge can come as a sudden realization or a nagging feeling
of doubt that grows stronger, waking us up to the fact that something needs to
change. Some people have a tendency to act rashly and make sweeping changes
before even understanding what the problem is. Other people fear change, so
they live with the uncomfortable awareness that something needs to shift but
won't do anything about it. Between these two extreme responses lies a middle
way that can help us powerfully and gracefully change what isn't working in our
lives.
The first step is remembering that your life is made up of parts that belong to
an interconnected whole. Changing one thing can change everything. Because of
this, small changes often have a big effect. Sometimes much bigger changes are
necessary, but the only way to know for sure is to take the time to really
understand the problem. Examine your life as an entirety--your work, your
relationships, where you live--and determine what specifically is not
functioning the way you would like. Once you have figured out the problem, write
it down on a piece of paper. For example, "I am not happy with my
relationship" or "I don't like my community center." The next
step is to figure out the adjustment you would like to make and how you can go
about making this change. If you are unhappy with your relationship because you
spend too much or not enough time with your partner, you may want to discuss
this
problem with them and come up with a compromise. On the other hand, if you
realize your relationship is not working to such a degree that it needs to end,
begin working through that process. Writing down the truth can be a powerful
catalyst for change.
The key to making changes that work is to accept the necessity of change as
part of life. As we change, we may find it necessary to fine-tune our relationships,
work, and living situations. Our lives are living, breathing entities that
reflect our dynamic selves.
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I am whatever YOU think I am until YOU get to KNOW me. This is true for everyone else too, of course.. so don't make assumptions about anyone or pass judgment; ask questions. You might just make a new friend.
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Sunday, December 19, 2021
☯️ CHANGE WHAT ISN’T WORKING π³️π COMMUNITY FREEDOM ππ½
If we don't change what isn't
working in our lives and communities, we will continually have the same day
over and over again.
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