Every relationship
is bound to hit a dry spell, but with the recent current events that have us
all stuck at home, bored, peeved, and yearning for our favorite brunch spot,
many of us are starting to feel the weight of the world on our shoulders and
it’s hurting our sex lives. Some like to imagine that being stuck with their
partner 24/7 is nothing but a nonstop sex fest, but honey...the reality is that
the flame for many of us has fizzled due to several reasons right now. However,
not all hope is lost. We can recover from this and lift our sexual spirits and
harden those dicks with a few suggestions that will help reignite your sex life
while staying safe at home.
ZOOM IT UP
Couples who
are not as lucky as you and are stuck away from their partners are relying heavily on texting, calling, and video calls to keep things going.
So who’s to say you can’t do the same. If you have two separate locales in your
home, take advantage. One of you can go set up shop in the bedroom while the
other utilizes the living room. From there you can get creative. Either
roleplay that you’re long-distance lovers, one of you is away on business, or
imagine some other scenario that would lead you two to being apart during this
time. Whatever it is, make sure it’s hot enough to get you going.
ROLEPLAY
If you don’t
want to video chat, then use the power of roleplaying in person. For those of
you who think roleplaying is silly, it isn’t. You used to be a kid and play
pretend, right? Okay, well, it’s the same thing except you wind up fucking at
the end instead of having a tea party. Unless your fantasy involves being a
fancy-ass royal who gets railed over Afternoon Tea. Then go with that and
instead of finger sandwiches, finger one another’s asses. See, you’re getting
it now!
GET ADVENTUROUS
If you just
can’t with the roleplaying idea or you can and are down for anything, then our
next suggestion works either way. Before you were stuck inside with your
partner, you may have gotten used to routine sex life. Same foreplay and
positions each and every time. That, on top of the stay at home plan, may all
be why you and your partner aren’t having as much sex right now. Well, it’s
time to shed the routine and try something, anything new. Introduce new
positions and interests into the bedroom. There is no time like the present to
be adventurous in your sex life, so don’t shy away from any suggestion your
partner may have. Go with it and go wild.
ORDER TOYS
Speaking of
adventurous, if you have never been the type to incorporate toys into your sex
life it may be time to start. You can’t run out and buy any, but that doesn’t
mean you cannot order an array of sex toys online. Keep those postal workers in
business and get your credit card out and order away!
GO ON “DATES”
When the most
exciting part of your day is going from the kitchen to the living room to the
bathroom, it can get you down and put you far from being in the mood to fuck.
So pick a day where you designate one part of your home as your “date” locale.
Don’t do any type of work in that space that day, then at night both of you get
ready for your “date” and head to that space for a nice dinner. It isn’t your
favorite restaurant but at least it will break the monotony and remind you of
your nights out that eventually led to a great night back in at your place.
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