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Monday, April 23, 2012

THE HOOKUP MANUAL – DO’s & DON’Ts









Relationships aren't on everyone's radar. And even if they are, many guys stay open to hooking up on the path to whatever they are looking for. Meeting guys for random fun can be a wonderful thing or a complete disaster depending on what you do before, during and after hooking up.


The next time you plan on meeting someone, go over this list of do's and dont's to avoid a total calamity. First time or seasoned host, there's something to learn for 


everyone.







DO: Be Yourself

I'm the most charming guy in the world when I get to know someone. But, when I just meet guys (in-person or online) I'm king of awkward. In most cases, there are only a few seconds to seal the deal. One wrong word or disastrously geeky move could easily kill the vibe... or so it seems. Reality is, short of setting his shoes on fire, not much you say or do will turn him off if he's into you. You'll either vibe with him or not and the awkwardness may be what he's attracted to. Another crazy reality is most gays come out of the womb waiting for someone to choose us instead of the other way around. Use this to your advantage. Whoever you are, whatever you look like and however smooth or awkward your personality, see the situation as your choice and your chance, not his. When you're the real you the focus shifts from what you think you're doing wrong to whether if he'swhat you really want.









DON'T: Exaggerate

If you're online and claim the movie Anaconda was based on your love stick but your assets are more like a garden snake, you'll only look like a moron in the end. Be honest! If you haven't broken a sweat since 6th grade gym class, you're probably not athletic. Similarly, chances are you're not "just looking for friends" if you're cruising for an hour long meetup. Most of us don't lie on purpose; it's just easier on the ego to try and anticipate what other guys want. It's not uncommon to try and read their minds and portray ourselves as things we're not. But, we're most confident when we're direct and honest. It's better to be upfront, state exactly what you're looking for, and keep to exactly who you are.







DON'T: Have Expectations

Okay, this may seem contrary to most things I say on this site, but expectations shouldn't be confused with confidence. Expectations are false hopes that often lead to disappointments. Expectations on your way to a hook up can be a fiasco. Our imaginations are wonderful things, but can lead us to annoyance when we start creating scenarios before they happen. You're not a fortune teller nor can you predict how things will go down, so why build it up? Avoid the regret by going into the situation with an open mind. This puts you in a better position to adjust to potential setbacks or successes.







DO: Have Fun

Go into it with the idea that you're there to have fun, not invite him to Thanksgiving or prom. Although hookups can be, rarely are they the basis of a long term relationship. Even if you think the guy is the best thing ever, only the future will tell if the connection is lust or love.






DO: Ask for His Sex History

Hey, would you give a stranger the keys to your car and tell him to do what he want with it, just bring it back whenever he's finished? Not a chance! Odds are you'd laugh out loud at the idea of risking your insurance premium, your transportation and any other unwanteds for someone you just met. So why take the chance with sex? At least you can get another car if something went wrong, but our bodies are ours until the lease expires. Ask him if he hooks up frequently or if he's into barebacking. Takecondoms with you and see if he has some of his own. A little reverse psych works here, too. Ask if he likes it raw. It's crude, but gets to the point. Chances are he won't know if you're asking to feel him out or if you are into it, so the answer is most likely honest.








DON'T: Feel Shame
There's nothing to be ashamed of. You know what
you like and you (hopefully) know your body and self well enough to keep it
safe and still have fun. Learn from the experience. See if it's right or
not-so-great for you. Shame and guilt do nothing but distract you this
perpetual journey you're taking to figure out who you truly are. Instead, take
this time and experience to get to know yourself, what you like and dislike.
There are no explanations or justifications needed. Protect yourself first,
because not everyone has an interest in keeping you safe. Then decide if
hooking up is for you—once, occasionally, all the time or not at all.


SOURCE: GAY LIFE

MONDAY MUSICAL MOTIVATION: WILD ONES





Rapper Flo Rida teams up with Australian singer Sia in
his new single called 'Wild Ones', taken from his forthcoming album 'Only One
Rida (Part 2)' (2012) - The American MC sticks to his winning formula and has
created yet another club anthem! 'Wild Ones' is catchy, it's got a huge epic
sound, Sia makes the hook interesting and different, and although the single
may have somewhat of a less mainstream appeal, I have no doubts 'Wild Ones'
will eventually become Flo Rida's newest global smash.


"Wild Ones" by Flo
Rida Featuring Sia is currently in the HOT100 Billboard charts
at position 6. The Wild Ones lyrics by Flo Rida are displayed
below.










[Sia - Hook]
Hey I heard you were a wild one
Oooh
If I took you home
It'd be a home run
Show me how you'll do

I want to shut down the club
With you
Hey I heard you like the wild ones
Oooh

[Flo Rida]
I like crazy, foolish, stupid
Party going wild, fist pumping
Music, I might lose it
Blast to the roof, that's how we do'z it
I don't care the night, she don't care we like
Almost dared the right five
Ready to get popping, ain't no surprise
Take me so high, jumping no doubts
Surfing the crowd
Oooh
Said I gotta be the man
When they heading my van, might check one too
Shut them down in the club while the playboy does
it, and y'all get lose lose
After bottle, we all get bit and again tomorrow
Gotta break loose cause that's the motto
Club shuts down, I heard you're super models

[Sia - Hook]
Hey I heard you were a wild one
Oooh
If I took you home
It'd be a home run
Show me how you'll do

I want shut down the club
With you
Hey I heard you like the wild ones
Oooh

[Flo Rida]
Party rocker, foot show stopper
More shampoo
Never one, club popper
Got a hangover like too much vodka
Can't see me with ten binoculars
So cool
No doubt by the end of the night
Got the clothes coming off
Til I make that move
Somehow, someway, gotta raise the roof, roof
All black shades when the sun come through
Oh, it's on like everything goes
Round up baby til the freaky show
What happens to that body, it's a private show
Stays right here, private show
I like em untamed, don't tell me how pain
Tell them this, bottoms up with the champagne
My life, coming harder than we hit play
Do you busy with the bail, were you insane

[Sia - Hook]
Hey I heard you were a wild one
Oooh
If I took you home
It'd be a home run
Show me how you'll do

I want to shut down the club
With you
Hey I heard you like the wild ones
Oooh

[Bridge]
I am a wild one
Break me in
Saddle me up and lets begin
I am a wild one
Tame me now
Running with wolves
And i'm on the prowl

Show you another side of me
A side you would never thought you would see
Tell that body
Gotta make sure do you have enough
I can't lie
The wilds don't lie

[Sia - Hook]
Hey I heard you were a wild one
Oooh
If I took you home
It'd be a home run
Show me how you'll do

I want to shut down the club
With you
Hey I heard you like the wild ones
Oooh

I am a wild one
Break me in
Saddle me up and let's begin
I am a wild one
Tame me now
Running with wolves
And i'm on the prowl....


Flo Rida Wild Ones lyrics found on DIRECT LYRICS 
















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