He was
very into me during the few months of
dating and we made it official.
Things were
great… for a while. Then last Christmas, he dropped a bomb.
He admitted to
me that, based on his ‘behavior with his straight friends at a bachelor
party that he might be bisexual.
Although he
says he has never been in a relationship with a woman, or (apparently) had sex with a woman, he claims that his feelings toward women
have been increasing and leaving him feeling
overwhelmed with erotic fantasies.
He now
has been yo-yo-ing between wanting to be in a
relationship with me and breaking up, because he says he doesn’t know whether
he could pursue a long-term relationship with anyone until he knew more about
his sexuality.
It’s
especially hurtful because we’ve talked
about moving into together and getting married one day.
Am I selfish for wanting him to
stay with me and not wanting him to explore these feelings he has? I am lost, hurt, confused, and I don’t know what to do. What’s your
take? Am I being too close-minded?
Have you ever had to deal with this?
What are your thoughts?
What advice would you give this person?
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