In today’s
society, technology has expedited everything, including the speed at which you
can reach out to potential significant others. This is the quickest and easiest
way to get someone’s attention. You also have the advantage of being able to
send out messages to many people at once and wait for responses. It’s also
proven that receiving messages from other people gives you dopamine, which
makes you happy. Everyone likes being happy! So go out there and spread some
love to the world.
Pro tip: This
works best with a filled out profile that gives insights into the wonderful
being that you are. Top that off with a picture of your best features. Whether
that’s your buns, your guns, or your genuine smile, this is the moment to
showcase and embrace your beauty.
6. BE AROUND
THE GUY THAT EVERYONE WANT
The rest of
the list will unfortunately involve in-person interaction because the return on
investment per person on the apps of choice is not as high. We all know that
guy. Yes. The guy that can command an army of gays with the snap of his hands.
The guy who doesn’t need milkshakes to bring boys to his yard. Aspire to be
like him, but more easily, aspire to be around him. If you surround yourself
with beauty, you will appear more desirable yourself. Just test it out and see!
5. MAKE A
WITTY JOKE
Making a witty
joke about anything will instantly showcase your intelligence because it’s a
known fact that people who are perceived as more humorous tend to be more
intelligent. Naturally, you would want to impress him with your charming humor
and follow your joke with a proud smile. If you don’t think that you can come
up with witty jokes on the spot, have a few prepared ahead of time to use that
is appropriate to the setting. You know the places that you spend the most
time, so prepare your jokes accordingly so it seems natural.
4. GIVE HIM A
COMPLIMENT
Everyone loves
compliments. When was the last time you saw someone complain that someone gave
them too many compliments? However, there are guidelines into what types of
compliments you should give. If you think his biceps are absolutely gorgeous,
do not simply say that! Instead, compliment him on his determination to hit the
gym so regularly. After all, they do want their efforts at the gym to be noted.
Always emphasize the effort that he puts into his looks. Ideally, it will lead
to him talking about his life, to which you can just nod along whether you find
it interesting or not. Smile, because you now have his attention.
3. SHOW OFF
YOUR TREASURE
Everyone has
flaws, but everyone also has beauty. Similar to how you identified the part of
you to accentuate on your app of choice, you also should highlight that about
yourself in real life. Whether that means drop, bend, and snap, or twirling
your hair, you should bring all the goodies that you’ve got. If you’re wearing
some cute underwear, sag your pants a little and raise your hand up to reach
for the wine in the cabinet.
2. OFFER HIM A
DRINK
Life is hard
nowadays. After a long day, no one will say no to a free drink. Who doesn’t
like free stuff that doesn’t come with stipulations? If you want to get a guy’s
attention, buy him a drink and follow it up with a compliment or a witty joke.
In the race to get his attention, the earlier tactics can be used cumulatively.
However, buying him a drink instantly grants you a minute or so of his time. In
this time, mix all the tactics above and have a good time!
1. GO UP TO
HIM AND BE AUTHENTICALLY YOU<
I know, I
know. Cliché. However, at the end of the day, what will really get his
attention is who you are. No matter how good you are at telling jokes or giving
compliments, there’s likely someone who is better than you at it. I mean look
at Will Ferrell. He could blink humorously without problems. However, only you
are the best at being you. All of your weirdness and pet peeves. The perfect
combination of every aspect of you makes you unique.
And if he’s
not into that? Well, he’s not worth it anyway.
SOURCE: ANDREW CHRISTIAN
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