Now that many
of us are fully vaccinated, looks like meat is back on the menu, boys! Hookups
have returned (although I know many you cheeky fuckers never stopped), and
they're back with a vengeance. It seems like because so many of us were
deprived from our usual routine of--let's say--getting closer than six feet to
other men--that now we're making up for lost time. Dudes be going wild out
there. Boys in my city are fucking like animals as we emerge from our long
lockdown hibernation. And hey, I'm all here for it! Let's go crazy, but maybe
we can slow it down just a little bit, fellas? Let's fuck like bunnies, but
then afterwards... can we just cuddle?
Cuddling is
one of the most underrated parts of the hookup experience. And any hookup worth
its cum goes through all the proper "ing"s. There at least should be
some semblance of wining, dining, boning, cuddling. Abbreviated versions of
these steps are ok, but it's important to go through the narrative process.
Otherwise you end up with a dick in your moth before you've even learned his
name... which, is hot, but not always ideal.
If you just
cum with no emotional attachment, you may be flooded with dopamine, and that
feels great. But oxytocin, otherwise known as the "love chemical"
gets released way more in those post-coital moments of intimacy. Oxytocin
doesn't feel orgasmic, but you can bask in its ambient warmth for hours in bed
with your lover. Cuddling after sex is enjoyable in a different way, but
ultimately almost just as enjoyable as sex itself.
Hell, maybe
even cuddle before sex? Let's just lay there and enjoy each others company and
each other's warm bodies pressed together until we both get so aroused that we
can't take it anymore... Cuddle, fuck cuddle. Repeat as needed.
But maybe
you're the type who likes to cuddle, and then immediately run out the door. For
some guys, their post-nut state involves a fight-or-flight type response.
Cuddling guys like that can be hard, but it certainly won't stop me from
trying!
Seth does dances on the D with his tongue, while Asher lets little breath escape, in absolute ecstasy.
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