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Monday, April 3, 2017


If you had the opportunity to wake up tomorrow 100% straight, would you want to? Why or why not?


  1. Yes. I don't like that I was born this way. I have know that I am gay all my life. However, I tried to "normalize" myself by getting married and having kids. I had two wonderful sons. My older son got killed two years ago in a horrific car crash. I have just recently come out to my wife. She immediately asked for a divorce. Now I'm alone. My other son accepts me. Very few others do. I am alone and working in an industry [education] where I can be fired if I come out publicly. So... yeah... so much would be better if I were not.

  2. Yes I would be nobody wants to be reduced to others treating them like they just have to put up with you because of your orientation or talked about like you are different them. Yes we are different and like to be treated as such . So yes I would like be.

  3. Absolutely! I am alone, have been for quite some time, not entirely of my own choosing, but also because the world, at least where I live is so interested in living, and the almighty dollar, it makes it difficult at best to find someone. I have even "stopped looking", in hopes that someone, somewhere, would just like me for being me, and go from there. I'm not the best looking man in the world, not a pity party, just being truthful, and that is one big problem.It seems as if a person isn't God awful good looking, and/or well off financially, it's a losing battle. I'm not interested in money, or how you look, I'm interested in what's in your heart and mind. Another problem is age, if a person isn't 18 to 30, it just ain't happening. I am 57, I feel like I am 20. I love life, I love people, I like making people happy, and all I pray for is for me to be at least 1/2 as happy as I'd like. Doesn't look good. Again not pessimistic, just realistic. So yes, I believe it would be better for me to be straight.



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