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Monday, December 20, 2010

¿HAVE YOU EVER?

HAVE YOU EVER DONE THE FOLLOWING:

Ever go to one particular bank/food store/restaurant even when it's out of the way, because of the good looking man who works there?
Ever bought something you didn't need just because some HOT guy was selling it to you or because he was @ the cash register?
Ever purposely touch a man's hand (to feel his skin) for the thrill of it... or any other part of his body for that matter...
Ever go out of your way to introduce yourself to a man, "just in case."  And then become friends so that you could keep him nearby?
Ever find yourself staring at a man's lips so much that you didn't hear a word he said?
Ever move around a crowded room to be closer to where the guy that caught your eye is?
Ever ditched your family/friends because you just met a guy on your way to meet them?
Ever found the hang out of a guy like...and having a reason to be there?
Ever found out his interest and learned about it just so you can talk to him?
Ever went to church where this cute guy worships just to bow @ his altar later?
Ever got with a guy that has the weirdest fetishes despite the fact that they turn your stomach just because he was hot?
Ever got with a guy, hearing that he is HIV + and he INSISTS that you don’t use a condom?
Ever bought yourself a fancy ride just to get with men?
Ever gotten with a guy because he actually looked like his online picture?
Ever got a guy because he was the last one @ the club that wanted to go home with you for the night?
Ever got a ‘straight’ man drunk to have sex with him?
Ever pretended to be ‘straight’ just to get close to man?
Ever ‘bottomed’ for a guy you wanted just so you could ‘top’ him?
Ever purposely rear-end a guy’s car so he can rear end you later?
Ever had sex had with hot guy then dumped him because you found someone hotter?
Ever flirted with another man while on a date?
Ever lied about your finances just to get in a man’s pants?
Ever tell a man that you gonna work him over and give 2 so so minutes of sex?
Ever lied about your dick size to get with a guy?
Ever F&CKED guy that blew you off years ago but he doesn’t remember just for the fun of it?
Ever said, I LOVE YOU just to get in a man’s pants?
Ever had a threesome with man and his girlfriend just to get your turn with him?
Ever lied about being bi-sexual because it made you more attractive to other gay men?
Every lied about being married because it ups your unavailability with gay men?
Ever wanted a man SO bad that when the time came for you to get with him, you are out of condoms so you used whatever you could find?

HAVE YOU EVER? DAMN I COULD GO ON & ON WITH THE VARIOUS SCENARIOS THAT COME TO THIS TWISTED MINE OF YOURS BUT I AM TAPPED OUT…CAN YOU ADD OTHERS FOR ME? SHARE YOUR STORIES OF THINGS YOU DID JUST TO GET THAT MAN! 

PAY THE GAY AWAY...

Have you ever notice that there are certain gay men who dare to defy the societal impositions of manhood forced upon them? They live lives full of personal and professional success beyond measure without hesitation or signs of disgust @ the thought of them sharing a life with another man. We see these men every day, they are our doctors, lawyers, accountants and any man that has a profession that affords them many of what the world has to offer…including buying their acceptance or hidden aversion from persons that deem them acceptable because of the money they make. Why is that?
Now I would LOVE to believe that the primary reason for this ‘acceptance’ is because these men are GENUINELY able to connect with society as human beings, regardless of the differences that typically seek to divide us. However we all know better! Now don’t get me wrong, I feel that a gay man in his professional life, when he is genuine with himself, and is able to tap into the true desires of his heart and identify those things which are most important to him is a WONDERFUL thing. It is superb that he can achieve such a feat, but what about the countless gay men like myself that have the same passion, but lack the financial standing? We both ascertain our passions, we are candid with ourselves, yet we are on the outs and the gay man that has the awesome financial standing is in! Don’t you find it odd that the money he has allows him to navigate into arenas that he desires to travel in? How nice it must be for him to be able to communicate his wants and needs, AND be ‘respected’ ANDwell-liked’ for being a gay man with money!

Such a pity that the key to his success is based on the fact that ‘money can buy status’ and NOT that he is acceptable if he didn’t have the ‘green’ to gain their acceptance. I suppose one day gay men like me can gain acceptance by NOT being manipulated into a false sense of social status. One day gay men like me would not only have people want to do things for them, but they would keep us in mind for opportunities and advancement that we may not even be aware of…Bottom line, society would take us as we are with/without money; and they EASIEST way for that to happen is if society moves itself from a people that are closed, to a more open, honest and genuine people that knows that money is merely paper with numbers on it that happens to have some value. Perhaps one day they’ll realize that the world won’t fall off of its access, if they accept a gay man for who he is and NOT what he has. 

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