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Thursday, November 3, 2016


On hook up apps, we may embellish a little. At the beach, we may subtly adjust it to look better. Why is it so hard (pun intended) to talk honestly and openly about penis size?

A lot of avoidance on this issue likely comes down to the fact that our narrative about what constitutes a good size penis can largely be summed up in just 3 words – bigger is better. This baseline expectation is so entrenched in our collective thinking and culture, that it’s pushed out any other possible ideals.

It explains the rise in popularity of wonder-jock underwear, which much like it’s female cousin counterpart – the push up bra, enhances your natural shape to make it seem larger. It explains the anxiousness many men feel in gym change rooms. And ultimately, it explains why this topic seems to be so unapproachable for the majority of guys.

There’s potential to have a mature, real and affirming discussion about penis size, that would be so beneficial for so many guys. These unrealistic expectations that we place on ourselves, and that seemed to be reinforced by society, aren’t productive.

So big is yours?


  1. Bigger isn't always better. Depends on what you wanna do with it! LOL I can find something to do with just about any of them. Large or not.

  2. I agree. The fantasy sometimes don't live up to the reality. I wish we can just embrace all sizes just like we have started to embrace each other and our particular genders.yes we still have a lot to go.. But we are moving in such a wonderful direction.

  3. Size Doesn't Matter. It s about knowing how to use what you've got. There has to be some passion there or otherwise it's no more than just a fuck... pardon my language.



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