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Monday, June 8, 2009


Now that I have me, myself and I to get me past the 3 months that Noel isn’t here, I find myself looking for the porno DVDs that always hit the right spot for me. After looking up down the house for them, I remembered that they are in the hands of a lesbian friend of mine. Hence I ask the question, why do lesbians watch gay porn? I mean why would women who love women watch sex between two men?   It’s a head-scratcher but the phenomenon is true. Ask any lesbian and she’ll tell you, if she doesn’t watch gay porn she knows a lesbian who does. Here’s what I came across when I researched this fact: Most lesbians have a heightened awareness of how men have oppressed women and straight porn is often Exhibit A in that exploitation.  In gay porn, the bottoms (traditionally like women, receivers) are often just as POWERFUL as tops (traditionally, like men, givers).  So while it’s still male-on-male sex, there’s a power dynamic at work that appeals to lesbian political and personal sensibilities. So when I asked her this question her response was SHE ISN’T LOOKING @ THE PLAYERS IN THE PLAY, BUT THE ROLES THEY’RE PLAYING. I can accept that (I think) but when I think about the impatient angle due to the fact that lesbian porn takes FOREVER to get to the sex, I understand where she is coming from. When I think about the about how the intimacy AND emotional connections takes up half the DVD, my dildo would loose it’s erection as well…As she SO eloquently puts it, I LIKE GAY PORN BECAUSE THE ACTORS HAVING SEX F&CK or KILL IT, WHEREAS LESBIANS JUST PRETTY IT UP…And who wants their porn to be all nicely tied up with a pretty bow? I get that she is one of those lesbians that is turned on by masculine energy and she doesn’t want to have sex with a man, but how is she to learn how to use her various dildos and strap-ons? BUT ALL IN ALL SEX IS SO INTERESTING & WHAT MAKES NO SENSE TO YOU OR ME MAKES PERFECT SENSE TO SOMEONE ELSE…DAMN I NEED MY DVDs BACK!


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