Lord knows that being GAY is both an anomaly AND comparable to those hungry for every colorful detail they could uncover about who AND what we are. Isn’t it INTERESTING that from the dawn of time to this very day little has changed when it comes HOMOSEXUALS, except the coarseness with which we are discussed? These are some TOUGH times and taking on the job of HOMOSEXUAL can be seen as something suicidal AND deadly. But if we are to survive I feel that there some things WE need to work on before seeking employment in this area of life.
THE OUTRAGEOUS FACTOR…Many of us in seeking to understand ourselves do so in part by seeing who are when it comes to relating to one another. With this device we analyze where we came, where we are AND where we are going. I find that SO many of us spend WAY too much time trying establish the RIGHT base for a relationship that we get all caught up in who is going to be the GIRL in the relationship. Gender roles shouldn’t play any major role if any in the relationship module. Yes there are things that women do differently from men, but that does NOT mean that we should define AND confine ourselves to a set of standards that does NOT suit the core of OUR relationships. So I guess if the core of who are is NOT defined then EVERYTHING else will undoubtedly fall apart…RIGHT? I suppose it is NO surprise that SEX is one if not THE most important thing in most of the lives of HOMOSEXUALS. I get that it is IMPORTANT to have A POSITIVE BODY IMAGE; but what is THE POSITIVE BODY IMAGE FOR US? We rate ourselves so harshly when it comes to our weight that we force each other to stay within the two-pound weight range that will not reveal us as either anorexic OR a pig in the name of having A KILLER BODY; BUT FOR WHAT REASON? So that we can lust @ each other, throw ourselves about, sharing our sexual energy AND leave with NOTHING? I find it interesting how SO many of us want to age GRACEFULLY, but NEVER get older…I guess being FOREVER young means that you have MORE chances to live life in a continuous time block that is ALL ABOUT GETTING IN, GETTING OFF & GETTING OUT…If only we took OUR jobs SERIOUSLY and make a REAL connection with each other AND make the community what it ought to be.
SURVIVING THE TOUGH TIMES…We all face difficult times. When the storms of life hit, how will they affect YOUR sexuality? What can you do to make sure YOU survive? Sooner OR later most homosexuals will face THE test of their lives: HOMOPHOBIA, UNACCEPTANCE, HATRED & MISUNDERSTANDINGS. Going through tough times can leave an individual feeling closer to being whole, OR it can destroy them COMPLETELY. The key to helping you survive through tough times is to make sure that you are strong AND firm within yourself before hard times strike. I find that during tough times we OFTEN do things that tend to undermine who we are SPIRITUALLY, MENTALLY & PHYSICALLY; and it is in these times when who we are matters most. I find that it if we keep life in perspective AND distinguish our fact from fiction things would be quite fine. So many of TALK about LIVING a NORMAL life while EVERY aspect of it is being scrutinized AND downgraded. It is SO sad how most of us try to maintain this DEEP GRATITUDE for everything while EXPRESSING OPINIONS ABOUT NOTHING. KINDA SAD DON’T CHA THINK? IN ORDER FOR US SURVIVE TOUGH TIMES, WE NEED TO FEEL APPRECIATIVE FOR THE EXTRA~ORDINARY LIFE THAT GOD HAS GIVEN US. IT IS MY HOPE N’ BELIEF THAT IF WE ADHERE TO THIS NOTION WE WILL BE EXTREMELY SUCCESSFUL @ THE JOB OF BEING A HOMOSEXUAL.
- ARE YOU QUALIFIED FOR THIS JOB?
- WHAT ENERGY CAN YOU BRING TO THE GAY COMMUNITY?
- HAVE IN ANY SHAPE OF FORM INTERNALIZE YOUR HOMOPHOBIA?
- DO YOU VALIDATE YOURSELF WORTH BY WHOM YOU HAVE SEX WITH?
- DO YOU EXPLOIT YOURSELF ON ADAM4ADM, BGC, THUGS FOR SEX OR YOUTUBE?
- DOES THE PICTURE OF YOU IN YOUR TIMB & WIFE BEATER, UNDERWEAR, DICK HARD, ASS SHOT SHOWING THE GLORY HOLE SAYS THAT THIS IS WHO I AM?
- DO YOU PROVIDE SUPPORT TO THE COMMUNITY?
- ARE YOU CAPABLE SOLVING & RESOLVING PERSONAL ISSUES WITH YOUR FELLOW GAY BROTHERS & SISTERS?
- DO YOU SUPPORT THE ACHIEVEMENTS OF THE COMMUNITY BY RECOGNIZING THE SUCCESS OF OTHERS?
- WILL YOU CONTINUE TO LOOK FOR ANOTHER JOB?
THE PURPOSE OF THIS BLOG ENTRY TO GET US TO START LIVING, LOVING & WORKING TOWARDS BEING THE BEST HOMOSEXUALS WE CAN BE. I GET THAT WE ALL HAVE OUR STORIES TO LIVE OUT, BUT I AM OF THE OPINION THAT THE STORYLINES CAN CHANGE BEFORE THE SHOW GETS BORING OR IT GETS CANCELLED. EITHER WAY WE NEED TO STOP FEELING WHO WE ARE & WHO WE LOVE. LOVE IS THE ONE THING THAT SHOULD UNITE US; IT SHOULDN’T BE USED AGAINST US BECAUSE OF HOW IT IS FORMED…SO HERE’S TO EACH & EVERY ONE OF US TAKING OUR JOBS AS HOMOSEXUALS SERIOUSLY!