I always thought that MARRIAGE was a BOND that united a couple that intended to spend the rest of their lives together. However this UNION though taking place in a CHURCH or in the presence of GOD does NOT live up its TRUE meaning. I SAY THIS BECAUSE MOST IF NOT ALL THAT ENTER INTO THIS CONTRACTUAL AGREEMENT DOES SO FOR THE SOLE PURPOSE OF SOCIAL RECOGNITION. F&CK WHAT YOU HEARD, MARRIAGE IS NOT NATURAL & IS WORN LIKE THE LATEST PAIR OF DESIGNER SHOES THAT WILL BE THROWN OUT NEXT SEASON! How can anyone THINK or FEEL that they can SUSTAIN a LIFETIME of HAPPINESS when they are NOT trying to achieve it? We have a SOCIETY that marries based on some cardinal agenda that focuses on NOT marrying for LOVE. They act as if LOVE is just a ROMANTIC ILLUSION and use the entity of MARRIAGE as simply a MERGER or ACQUISITION. Rather MATERIAL things are the SUN and they are the EARTH that revolves around it. I wonder what happened to the childhood fantasies as they create the LIFE of their dreams? It seems that when they reach a crossroads where the choices seem to involve the risk of facing the unknown versus the safety and comfort of what they think life should be, they take the road much traveled. I find this funny because they live a life that mirrors that of a tightrope walker, carefully staggering along the narrow path to some F&CK up goals, most times doing so without a net. Ironically, if one bases HIS/HER marriage on LOVE, then they would be balanced. However they live in a place that does NOT trust the UNIVERSE, so without universal support where does this leave them? I SAY UP SH!T CREEK WITHOUT A PADDLE, because in this instance that SAFE NET that they thought they had turns out to be the TRAP and BARRIER from TRUE happiness. Ultimately this only shows that they LIED to their spouse just to be with them, which is ALMOST as bad as the LIE they told to themselves. How can anyone COMPROMISE the innocence of LOVE just to be associated to another because it looks good? TALK ABOUT KEEPING UP APPEARANCES! HMMM, I wonder LONG one can keep this wheel spinning? How can anyone consummate a RELATIONSHIP by MARRIAGE if you don’t even have love for each other? This life that we live is so EASY yet THEY do things that make it HARD because THEY forget the SOIL from which THEY came. It is almost as if THEIR collective VOCAL CORDS are silenced by THEIR need to perpetuate a LIFETIME of TRADITION that need NOT stand. This way of life that is taking place in the world needs NOT to exist. I am tired of hearing about the countless MARRIAGES that fail because of some technicality that was NOT foreseen ahead of time. If THEY had based MARRIAGE upon the rock for which it stood there would NOT be any problems OR tribulations to deal with. NONETHELESS, THIS CELLULOID EXISTENCE WOULD HAVE US BELIEVE THAT MARRIAGE DOES NOT EXIST. IF IT HAD ITS WAY, WE WOULD BELIEVE THAT THIS IS A CONCEPT MADE UPS BY HUMANS WHO ARE AFRAID TO FACE THEIR FAIRYTALE HOPES WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE. BUT I SAY WHO ARE THE ONES LIVING IN FEAR OF SOME NON-EXISTENT RULE? I SAY F&CK THEM ALL, FOR WE ALL KNOW WHAT WILL STAND IN THE END & IT IS ALL THAT MATTERS.