WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO THIS GUY ABOUT HIS SEX~LESS RELATIONSHIP?
Me and my partner have been together for just under 2 years now and we love each other very much. Due to a strange set of circumstances he moved in with me and my family within the first year of us meeting. However this is not the source of our problem.
We had Sex a lot while we where dating and before he moved in. To some extent we were at it like rabbits. Since he's moved in we have gone from one extreme to the other and now it is rare that we have sex at all.
We have discussed at great length about sex and how to solve our problems and we seem to hit a brick wall every time. It has now become a problem where the only time we have sex is if I instigate it and then having sex for him becomes a chore that he can tick of a list. It is also uncomfortable because I don't feel the closeness and bond that we should be experience when we have sex.
We really love each other very much and want to be together forever, but this issue puts a strain on our relationship and we are not sure how to fix it.
We would really appreciate any advice or guidance you could give us. -C