I AM...

I am whatever YOU think I am until YOU get to KNOW me. This is true for everyone else too, of course.. so don't make assumptions about anyone or pass judgment; ask questions. You might just make a new friend.


Wednesday, November 28, 2012


There are approximately 400,000 youth in foster care in the United States. A disproportionate number of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) children end up in the system, though an exact count is unknown.

This month on IN THE LIFE, seven LGBTQ youth from the foster care system share their stories. Failed by their families, these young people go on to face rejection from foster families, invisibility within the system and incredible obstacles to healthy development.


I often wonder if Facebook was built so that we could spy on each other without being easily detected. Although it can’t be proven, I’m pretty sure that a sizeable amount of Facebook’s current stockholders are also male “stalk-holders” in their man’s current or former affairs. Aside from keeping a comfortable tab on his daily routine, some men LOVE to nose around in his past and do a little “routine check” on what life was like before them.

Whether it’s an urge that sparks from a simple thought like: “Why does it seem like all of his other boyfriends are cuter than me?” Thoughts like this is damaging & is a sign of insecurity and chip away at a man’s ability to be what his boyfriend needs now, versus a potential blue print of what he left behind.

IMHO, the only thing to gain from opening up the closed doors in your ex’s former life is allowing in a slew of problems that were never there before. Whether you know it or not, now you have a dozen unanswered questions.

So tell me have you ever been obsessed with your boyfriend's ex? 


"Mere belief counts for nothing unless carried into practice."
Lady Shabazz


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