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Monday, March 19, 2012

GAY MEN, ¿HOW ABOUT SOME SEXOLUTIONS?





Is this you: I'm old /
shy / fat / thin / etc. Am I destined to
always be alone?
Are you
tired of just meeting guys to hook up? Do you want to be in a relationship but
the men you like aren't into you? How do you meet the kind of men you like and
get them to like you, too?





We all have qualities we can improve upon. Sometimes we feel
out of shape and want to work out more or improve our diets. Sometimes we see
that we need to be patient with our boyfriend, or remove ourselves from toxic
friends and environments that are bringing us down. That's all good stuff. It's
a part of life, of our personal evolution, and it's the way we make ourselves
better people. But when you start thinking there's something wrong with who you
are as a human being, and you're basing that judgment on your inability to get
laid or date certain guys or find a husband, then you're doing yourself a huge
disservice.





So right
here, right now, D.R. wants you to make some sex-based resolutions, or "sexolutions" as he likes to
call them.









1. Spot the Hot



You have hotness in you. It could be your arms, butt, abs, or
eyes. It could also be your laughter, compassion, and intellect—these don't
have to be physical qualities. Figure out what those things are and write them
down. Write them ALL down. Try to remind yourself of at least one of those
qualities when you wake up in the morning and before you go out. When it comes
to dating or cruising, confidence is king.







2. Meet
the Meat


You want to meet men? You want the guys you like to like you
back? Then go out and hit the bars, or join an organization, or go online and
visit dating sites, but whatever you do, stop sitting at home feeling bad about
yourself. Yes, chances are you'll get rejected sometimes, and yes guys can be
be bitchy and mean, but if you don't make the effort you're never going to meet
someone.







3. Help
Him Spot the Hot


When you go to a job interview you don't start the meeting by
talking about your faults and insecurities. You put on your best clothes, your
best face, and you show potential employers what a catch you are. The same goes
for meeting men. Be yourself. Don't be cocky or try too hard, just hold onto
your strengths and be open during the conversation. Listen to the other guy and
spot the hot in him as well. If you can make the date a give and take, you'll
be on solid ground.







4. Try a
New Trick


This could be a guy, a toy, a piece of clothing or any new
kink. There's something that's been tickling your fancy, so if it's not going
to hurt another person then why not try it? D.R. often hears about guys who
didn't embrace something sexually exciting until they were much older, and they
regret wasting those years living in fear of judgment (from themselves or
others). Stop it. Now. Find a way to at least dabble your toes (or something
else) in this new experience. Whatever the end result, you'll definitely grow
as a person.







5. Enjoy
Your Body


Sex is good. It is. So allow yourself to enjoy it—either with
another guy, or alone with your hand and a little imagination. If you're single
it's easier to explore new things, but you can do it in a relationship as well.
Talk to your man, tell him your desires, and go on the journey together. As men
we can have sex for years, so take advantage of that gift.


Obviously
these sexolutions aren't cure-alls for bad self-esteem; the real battle there
is taking on the disparaging self-talk, seeing it for what it is and really
breaking yourself out of those negative bubbles. Don't let 2012 begin with the
same old habits and frustrations you've felt in the past. Instead, challenge
yourself to love yourself, step outside your comfort zone, and enjoy everything
that life has to offer.





SOURCE: GAY DOT NET

MONDAY MUSICAL MOTIVATION: IT ALL BELONGS TO ME






R&B veterans Monica and Brandy
re-unite 14 years after her 1998 smash hit "The Boy Is Mine" to
deliver a new timeless duet in the form of "It All Belongs to Me" -
Written and produced by Rico Love, the 'very soulful R&B song with pop
sensibilities' serves as the lead single from Monica's seventh album "New
Life" (March 6th), although it will also appear on Brandy's new CD, coming
in the Spring of 2012.











Loving you
is hard


I feel like I'm about to hurt myself


And I don't want to do it baby





I'm loving you so hard


And the way you acting ain't been no help


So no no no sugar


(yeah, you got it sweet don't you)





You must be glad


You must be dumb


You must be trippin'


You must be crazy


To think that i'mma let you off that easy





I know you're mad


Can't take no more


But put that bag, that ain't yours


Have a fit, slam the door


Don't leave a mess on the floor


That sh-t belongs to me





Those clothes, those cars, those rings


That mac book, that sh-t belongs to me


So log off your facebook


It All Belongs to Me





All you do is talk


Never knew you do too nothing else


You ain't good enough baby





It's like you got no heart


Cold as ice, and nothing can make you melt


No no no baby


Hold on one minute baby





You must be glad


You must be dumb


You must be trippin'


You must be crazy


To think that i'mma let you off that easy





I know you're mad


Can't take no more


But put that bag, that ain't yours


Have a fit, slam the door


Don't leave a mess on the floor


That sh-t belongs to me





Those clothes, those cars, those rings


And that Mac book, that sh-t belongs to me


So log off your Facebook


It All Belongs to Me





Ain't nothing leaving this house


Unless it's over my dead body baby


So pack up all the things you came with


Cause loving you is yesterday pray





I know you're mad


Can't take no more


But put that bag, that ain't yours


Have a fit, slam the door


Don't leave a mess on the floor


That sh-t belongs to me





Those clothes, those cars, those rings


And that mac book, that sh-t belongs to me


So log off your facebook


It All Belongs to Me, to Me


And that belongs to me, to me


It All Belongs to Me, to Me


It All Belongs to Me





Monica and Brandy’s It All Belongs To Me lyrics found on DIRECT
LYRICS


RUPAUL'S DRAG RACE, SEASON 4: EPISODE 7 - DRAGAZINES





This week on Drag Race we are left with lucky 7. The mini
challenge this week was about reading, because it is what?
REALLY embarrassing if they aren’t good. Like Phi Phi, oh girl.
It was just painful. After a pretty painful library session, Latrice was
named the winner and got to chose who gets what magazine. Oh yes, the challenge
this week was to created your own Dragazine. It wasone of the weakest and
lamest challenges I’ve ever seen on this show. What the heck does this have to
do with being a Drag Superstar? So random. Anyway, it was all pretty weak so
let’s just talk about the drama. Jiggly got health & fitness (shady Latrice
heh) and everyone told her to do funny…except Phi Phi who told her to do it
seriously if she believes in it.





SHADY. SHADY SHADY SHADY! And completely amazing, and she
didn’t say ANYTHING wrong in my opinion she just agreed with what Jiggly wanted
to do. Haha you fucking shady bitch I love it, it was awesome. The photo shoot
was very much like the autobiography challenge in season 2. I just really
REALLY wasn’t feeling it…what I WAS feeling was the absolute GORGEOUS
photographer. Honestly WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE! (Tweet me @TommyD)





On the runway we saw some cute
looks, Phi Phi turned out an AMAZING look: great makeup and the best cover and
was named the winner, with Sharon a close second. The rest
didn’t fare so well. Latrice got clocked for her heavy gown, Dida got clocked
for her hair again (which I thought was lovely), Chad got clocked for her bad
cover, and Willam got clocked for his beard…again. Poor Willam, I just don’t
know why his beard keeps poking through, and his cover was one of the worst. He
was in the bottom with surprise surprise…Jiggly. Jiggly is just not suited for
this show and has skated by on the success of the groups she’s been in and
people she has been partnered up with. Now while Willam may
not be the best performer (he is an actor after all…not a showgirl) it was
 time
for Jiggly to go
 and she finally got the boot.





SOURCE: HOMORAZZI

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