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Sunday, March 18, 2012

¿WHY DON'T LESBIANS HAVE SEX WITH IF THEY LIKE DILDOS?





Question: Why Don't Lesbians
Have Sex with Men if They like Dildos?





Dear Lesbian Life
I watched Real Sex on HBO today about lesbians wearing strap ons. If you are
lesbian and into woman why wear a strap on instead of being with a man?
Chuck Cox





Answer:





Dear Chuck:


The simple answer is because a woman
is wearing it. Sexual attraction is about more than the physical act of sex,
it's about the person you're doing it with.





Let’s face it. Penetration feels
good. At least to those who enjoy penetration. Just because a woman wants to
experience penetration does not mean she wants to have sex with a man.
Actually, that is one of the biggest sexual myths about
lesbians. Another myth is that the female partner who wears a dildo wants to
“be” a man. Not true.





Think about it this way. You’re a man. Either a man or a
woman could perform oral sex on you. Although both might feel good, I bet there
is one you would prefer to have sex with.





Sexuality and sexual attraction is about so much more than
the pieces and parts that touch one another when we make out or make love. What makes someone
lesbian, bisexual, gay or straight
 is still not understood.





Also, I should point out that sexual behavior is not the same
as sexual
orientation
. Just because you let another man give you oral sex
would not necessarily mean you are gay. Likewise, there are women who identify
as lesbian who do sometimes have sex with men. Some do it for survival, some do
it for pay and some do it because they enjoy it. Regardless, they are still lesbian.





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