I AM...

I am whatever YOU think I am until YOU get to KNOW me. This is true for everyone else too, of course.. so don't make assumptions about anyone or pass judgment; ask questions. You might just make a new friend.


Thursday, February 2, 2012


For a long time, probably since birth, we're told that real
men are this tall, this wide, this muscular and with this posture. Real men
grill, they don't eat tofu. A man's man knows that the steak is king on plate
not the salad. A guy's guy only works on the outside because he's strong enough
to tackle what's inside on his own. But, what about you and I? We're men. Real
men that may not fit all of this characteristics.

Often what's seen on the outside is a reflection of what's
happening underneath the skin. But this isn't always the case. A fit person
doesn't always have a thin frame and rock hard muscles. A lousy fast food diet
isn't always a fast ticket to extra pounds. Besides, I may consider a fast food
diet as lousy and you may love it. Good nutrition can be seen a number of ways
outside of the body, but doesn't always equal a standard physique.

Now, for the purposes of this entry I am not defining a man as masculine or
being a top instead of a bottom or being into sports instead of theater. (I am going to get into how you feel about perceptions of masculinity and femininity). I'm interested now in how we as men who like, love and
have sex with other men value how guys take care of their complete physical
health. How do they deal with what goes into it? What do they do about the
outside? How do they take care of themselves when things go wrong? Do they care
at all? Do you? 

So, let's hear what's happening inside of your ideal man's body. Moreso, how do
you like your man to take care of himself? 




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