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I am whatever YOU think I am until YOU get to KNOW me. This is true for everyone else too, of course.. so don't make assumptions about anyone or pass judgment; ask questions. You might just make a new friend.

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Wednesday, January 5, 2011

12 GAYS OF X-MAS: THE TWELFTH GAY OF X-MAS...






MAY THE TWELFTH  GAY OF X-MAS BRING YOU THE GIFT OF FELLOWSHIP! We human beings, by our very nature, love to gather. Yet as much as we crave community, the rigors of real life frequently interfere with our efforts to come together with likeminded individuals. For this reason, fellowship is crucial to humanity's wellbeing now more than ever. When people with similar interests, ideals, or aspirations come together as a group, a community is built that provides a new dimensionality to our earthly experiences. The formation of a fellowship is like an invitation welcoming all those desiring companionship and camaraderie into a circle of support. Groups of likeminded individuals are to some extent inherently exclusionary, being that they serve as a supportive environment in which people who have something in common can gather. Yet such groups can also transcend the boundaries that might otherwise keep people apart. So remember that you must try to ward off any discouragement you feel when those intrigued by your fellowship’s purpose are not ready to contribute actively. They are likely waiting to see how it evolves and whether you are truly committed to serving as its heart and soul. If the group you have founded is a positive influence in the life of even a single individual, it is well worth it. Your intention to bring people together will be the seed that develops into a source of nurturance and community that stays true to its purpose long after its initial inception.




The formation of a fellowship is like an invitation welcoming all those desiring companionship and camaraderie into a circle of support. Groups of likeminded individuals are to some extent inherently exclusionary, being that they serve as a supportive environment in which people who have something in common can gather. Yet such groups can also transcend the boundaries that might otherwise keep people apart. So remember that you must try to ward off any discouragement you feel when those intrigued by your fellowship’s purpose are not ready to contribute actively. They are likely waiting to see how it evolves and whether you are truly committed to serving as its heart and soul. If the group you have founded is a positive influence in the life of even a single individual, it is well worth it. Your intention to bring people together will be the seed that develops into a source of nurturance and community that stays true to its purpose long after its initial inception. 

WHAT HIS TATTOO SAYS ABOUT HIM...

MANY OF WE GAY MEN HAVE ISSUES WITH MEN THAT ARE NON-COMMITTAL, SO WHEN A MAN PERMANENTLY MARKS HIS BODY WITH TATTOO, THE IMAGE CAN TELL YOU A GREAT DEAL ABOUT THE MAN HE IS. SO HERE SOME OF THE CRAZIEST TATTOOS WE'VE SEEN OR HEARD OF, ALONG WITH AN ANALYSIS OF WHAT THEY MIGHT MEAN ABOUT THE MAN UNDER THE INK…


Someone's Name - Talk about commitment: A man who puts someone else’s name on his body is not just a romantic, he's also not afraid to show it. But, if that name isn’t yours, he better put something else over this tat or gets it removed.

His Own Name - What, is he worried he might forget it? I hate to say it, but a guy with this tattoo may be a bit full of himself.

“Mom” -  Sure, he may not still be connected via umbilical cord, but a man who has "Mom" emblazoned on his body is not only unimaginative in the ink department, he could also be a bit of a momma's boy. Though maybe he's really a rebel: Given that most moms we know aren't huge fans of tattoos, we'd bet they wouldn't exactly be thrilled to be honored in this fashion.

His Kids' Faces - This tattoo signifies a very sweet gesture. Though, don't kids age? Will the guy sporting this tattoo get new ones as the kids get older, sort of like charting their heights on the kitchen wall? Plus, talk about embarrassing for his kids when they grow up: When they bring home dates, all Dad has to do is roll up his sleeves to show off their cutesy baby photos, which are immortalized forever on his arms.

Tribal Arm-Band - Unless you’re Nick Lachey from 98 Degrees circa 1999, the barbed-wire armband tat is a no-no. Instead of saying he’s a macho man; this tattoo says your guy yearns to emulate a dude from a boy band.

Tear Drops - We always wondered what this tattoo means and it turns out that it has many interpretations, ranging from sweet to scary: Tears allegedly can represent loved ones who have died or people you have killed. If you meet a man with this tattoo, you may want to ask him what his symbolizes before saying yes to that date

New Age Symbol - If a guy sports an ohm symbol, ancient Sanskrit characters or some psychic emblem, he may be inclined to jump on the bandwagon of whatever spiritual trend comes his way (and might even try to convert you too). And his choice of ink is a bit ironic, as most spiritual practices encourage their followers not to do anything that would harm or mark their bodies.

Face Mask - On Mike Tyson, this look is bad ass. On anyone else, it's just terrifying.

Manly Animal - In most cases, a tattoo of some kind of jungle cat — lion, panther, tiger, and leopard — is pretty unoriginal. (A guy sporting one likely pointed to a random design on the parlor's wall.) But, besides that, we would guess that a man wanting some kind of ferocious beast inked onto him is one who may be a bit unsure of his own masculinity and needs something roaring from his skin to feel manly.


Full-Sleeves - Sure, this style is intricate and very artsy. All we know is a guy who went through the hours of pain for full-sleeve tattoos will really want to show them off. This means he also much really likes wearing cut-off shirts. Most women we know really don't really find cut-off shirts attractive.

SOURCE: MSN DOT COM





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