So by now all of you should know that when ever I visit the local GAY bars or CLUBS I feel incline to write about the things I see, taste, hear, feel and touch. This one is about the way MEN deal with each other…pity they can’t date first…GUESS THIS HAS TO BE YOUR BOYFRIEND FIRST…You think that they know that finding someone who is settled and content with being with one person is often hard to find these days. The minute you find someone you think is the one, they're out looking for someone else. Outside appearance, including genital size and body build are not the determining factors I seek. I look for someone with a good heart and who is content with one. They so caught up that they never stop to notice that everything that GLITTERS isn’t GOLD! That 220 lbs 6” man with 32” waist with a master degree may seem good on paper, but in reality what is he about? What kind of MAN would he be to you? I know that I’ve accepted the realities of the same gender loving relationships, have they? You think that because they are constantly looking for FINE ASS MAN they see on TV that they are over looking the ones that can’t compare to that? Too many of them are looking for the outward appearance and not inside. To me if a person is ugly on the inside I could care less about the outside cause all that really matters is what is on the inside. These men are just not into companionship; they are limited by their physical actions and just get a LOVE that lasts for the moment and not a LIFETIME. You would think that they know that love isn’t something that falls in your lap; it is something has to be cultivated with time and tenderness. I NOW WONDER HOW MANY BOYFRIENDS WILL IT TAKE FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING IS TRUE? HOW MANY TIMES ARE GONNA LIE TO YOURSELF JUST TO FEEL LOVE FOR A MOMENT? HOW MANY TIMES ARE YOU GONNA SAY THIS TIME IT'S DIFFERENT? HOW MANY TIMES ARE YOU GONNA MAKE ME ASK?